Coaching
For Individuals, Coules/Polycules and small Groups.
Do you have a specific or very personal concern? Or do you find it easier to explore and learn in a small setting? I offer theoretical and practical coaching for individuals, couples/polycules, and small groups.
Learning, exchange, and development tailored to your previous experience, knowledge, and wishes.
Focus Areas
As a workshop facilitator and coach, I combine technical knowledge, practical experience, and emotional sensitivity.
After several years of intensive exploration and self-exploration of my own sexuality and through the world of BDSM – both privately and professionally – I have accumulated a wealth of knowledge, skills, and experience. I would love to be part of your personal journey and support you in gaining valuable experiences.
The focus can be on one of these three pillars:
Learning
Skills
For Play Partners and Individuals
You know what you would like to learn. It's about technique, materials, hygiene, risks and safety.
e.g., for
Impact Play
Pain Processing
Breath Control
Anal Play / Pegging
Bondage with and without rope
Urethral Play and Catheter
Needle Play and Simple Sutures
You come alone or as a couple. If necessary, I will organize a person to volunteer as a practice subject. I will provide you with concentrated knowledge, share some stories and give you the opportunity to try things out. You benefit from my expertise and the studio's equipment.
You can focus entirely on learning. Of course we can share a laugh, but it's not a session. Nobody has to look sexy or perform anything. Relaxed learning where no question is too stupid to be asked.
Communication and Session Planning
For Couples and Polycules
The fantasy is perfect and the technical skills have already been learned quite well. Nevertheless, there are still these doubts.
What if something goes wrong? What if the other person doesn't like it?
What if I'm too boring?
Unlike vanilla sexuality in mainstream media, where most communication is non-verbal flirting and sparks fly, BDSM has countless tools and concepts for communicating needs, desires and boundaries. And that before, during and after play.
We take a journey through different concepts, find a common vocabulary and reduce inhibitions in communicating with each other with customized exercises.
Ideally, you come to me as a couple. We will explore your current situation, your uncertainties and I will give you tips on session planning.
Personal Development
For Individuals
You bring your own personal questions and, of course, your own biography of (un)experienced sexuality.
This type of coaching is about discovering and reconciling with your own kinky preferences.
Why does something cruel like that turn me on?
Is it okay for me as a woman to be submissive?
What does BDSM mean to me personally?
What can I learn from BDSM for other areas of my life?
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BDSM can be an addition to or focus of your personal sexuality, or it can be completely separate from it and bring fun and relaxation or karthasis. Or it can be a playground for testing your own physicality and limits.
I approach every sexual biography with empathy and compassion. I will assist you in finding the appropriate words to describe your experiences.
Are you ready for your next step?
Send me an email with your personal inquiry.